In SR 8.0.4, you will only find Packets In & Packets Out for Ethernet port
(if you need to get this data you have to go to older versions: 7.0.x as
they are no more supported in 8.0.x and later). You can download the
software "MG-SOFT MIB Browser Professional Edition with MIB Compiler" from
http://www.mg-soft.si/download.html and compile Ascend MIBs and let the
software browse the box with SNMP. You will get a tree of what oids are
available and their name, then you can choose what you want and get the
right oid corresponding to them.
I don't know what is the right SNMP to disconnect a user from a modem but
you can try with RFC1696.